How to get married in Zimbabwe
One of the major controversial topics in Zimbabwean society is relationships and Marriage
If you are facing challenges in getting married, this blog will guide you into your own house.
To get started, let's first understand what is marriage in Zimbabwe.
I'm Zimbabwean societies, marriage in general is when two partners in love start staying together. They are two major methods of marriage which are Paying the bride price and Cohabitation (kuchaya mapoto)
Cohabitation is achieved through many methods including kutizira.
In this blog l'm mainly focusing on the tips for women to get married using the kuchaya mapoto method, in the next blog l will cover up the bride price marriage.
Assuming that you have managed to find your perfect partner whom you want to be married to, (if not yet, go back to my previous blog on how to fall in love with the man lm crushing on, or how to find the perfect partner for marriage) You need to get him addicted to you and consume most of his attention.
Nomatter how many girls your dude is dating, trust me, he will marry you. Mainly plenty of unoccupied time and less attention will lead relationships into successful cheating of partners.
How to get your guys attention.
1.) You need to know your goals of the relationship, that is you want to be married to the guy. DON’T FOCUS on anything else even as long it will delay or spoil your goal. Now you need to start focusing and concentrating on turning your man into your property, someone whom you can control totally
Respect him and stay in his life through out the day through romantic communications. Even if he is at work, just call him with no request just to tell ' him lm missing you so much. I wish you would be here. My body needs you daddy'"if you don't have air time don't be ashamed to send call me backs until he phoned.
When he has nothing important to do like going to work or doing any other errands, prioritise spending time with him to ward him away from his friends. Study and know his time table. Phone him and invite him for to be with you. Tell him how good he is in bed, caring and how he could make a better husband. Tell him how much you have been blessed to have him.
He will start attending you more than often, and getting addicted to you.
Keep doing what makes him totally taken away. Study him and his weakness. If he love sex more than anything, pretend it to be he is the only man who managed to make you happy in bed and you don't want to loose him any more. Tell him you don't even want any other men.
NB. Make sure you don't get impregnated.
If your dude is staying with a friend or relative, advise him to find his own space such that you can have quality time always without limitations.
Now its high tine you can maximise since you are now in total control. Go for a sleepover and tell Jon you are not going back anymore. Nomatter what condition you are ready for a new start. Take wifiry duties and make him feel like a man. Teach him how to be responsible and motivate him things will be well soon.
Please note, Don't fall pregnant before the first six months of your marriage. Some friends or relatives might tend to not like you. So you still have the chance to try another marriage.
My next blog is on how to maintain a good marriage.
This will help you to establish your self into your dudes family and stay happy the rest of your life